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Rockbridge

Well, summer’s here and I spent the first week at a retreat for InterVarsity called Rockbridge. I left Tuesday and returned on Sunday. It was held in Western Virginia and it was held at an amazing place. It had a giant zipline over the lake, a blob, giant slides, volleyball courts, disc golf, a high ropes course, climbing wall, and lots of other great things. Naturally, I took advantage of them all.

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The awesome water slides and blob
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The great lawn in front of the dining center
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Playing volleyball with some friends
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Playing cabbageball with friends (It’s basically softball without gloves)p5084784-1.jpg
Being dropped from the giant swing
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I climbed this pole…
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Stood on the top…
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And then jumped off
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Another friend doing the daredevil leap
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Fellow Richmonders on the high ropes course
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Having fun on the ropes course
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Our group that did the ropes course together

However, the whole purpose was to train members of InterVaristy on leadership and general tracks for living a Christian life. I took a tract called Kingdom Living and we dealt with issues of multiethnicity, sexuality, social justice, the environment, and Christians in politics within our group. In addition, we studied the Sermon on the Mount and broke off into small groups where I made some good friends from the University of North Carolina. There were about 350 students there from about ten different schools in the Virginia and Carolinas region. Each night, we held a worship service and the week was a great experience overall.

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A beautiful stream at the retreat where I did my Retreat of Silence

One of my favorite things about Rockbridge was the volleyball. I hadn’t been able to play in a while, so it was great to get in hours of playing, both with friends from UR and complete strangers. I spent four hours playing volleyball in the hot sun on the first day. I got a little sunburnt, but it was worth it. At the end of the week, there was a tournament between schools and, even though our team lost in the semifinals, we still had a great time. Richmond won the Spirit Award with our overwhelming fan section, school spirit, and amazing cheerleading, beating UNC, Duke, and other schools that were much larger in the process (which we took great pride in doing).

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Getting serious with the facepaint
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This is how we arrived to the volleyball tournament
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Look at that intensity
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Playing in the tournament

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Some of our fantastic cheerleaders
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I’m ready to battle on the volleyball courts
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Cheering for the judges of the Spirit Award (which we won)
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Our final pose

Along the way, I made many new friends. I am the only freshman male on leadership for the Richmond chapter, but I made a new friend from North Carolina State who is also a freshman. His school was coming the next week, but he couldn’t come with them, so we adopted him as an honorary Spider and we became fairly close. Maybe we’ll go visit him sometime. Of course, I also developed relationships with other Richmond people. I only knew some of them vaguely before the trip, but now we are much closer. As a chapter, we set some goals and also played some games, such as Catchphrase and Connection. During Connection, I was on the edge of a bench and got so excited that I fell off backwards onto the floor. It was pretty embarrassing.

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Hanging out on the porch of one of the cabins
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Playing Catchphrase as a chapter
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Me and my fellow freshman friend. We decided to make
fun of the poses the girls were making

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The guys I hung out with for the week
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Our University of Richmond InterVarsity Leadership Team
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CONNECTION!!!

Now that I’m back, I’m working in the Admissions Office giving tours for a week before starting my research for the summer. I’m moving between residence halls and apartments often, so I feel like a homeless person at times, wandering around with my luggage that I need for the next few days and week. Anyways, I get some quiet time and lots of free time this week and I’ll see what else life has in store for me. This blog used a lot of pictures since that’s the easiest way to show what this week was about, so I hope you liked them.

Quote of the Week: “Purity is not the absence of something bad, but rather the presence of something good” -A teacher of my tract at Rockbridge
Thought to Ponder: Why does an “X” stand for a kiss?
Shout Outs: Anyone who has ever been to Rockbridge
YouTube Video of the Week:

Some fun optical illusions for you

Reflections on Second Semester

Now that my Freshman year is officially complete, I would like to take the chance to look back on everything that has happened during second semester. It gives you, the reader, a chance to catch up on what I’ve been doing and also give a concise version of everything that we have to offer here. For me, it simply gives me a chance to pause and take a collective look at what I’ve managed to accomplish in such a short period of time.

I’ll begin by taking a look at my classes since this should be the main focus of college. However, if you’ve been reading my blog, you may not have gotten that impression at times. I took Macroeconomics, Sculpture, Foundations of Leadership Studies, Calculus 2, and CORE. Even though the final grades aren’t in yet, I am confident that I did well. I really stepped up my work in CORE and I think I learned skills that will help me better manage my other classes in the future. Sculpture turned out to be a lot of fun for me. I’m not very artistic, but it was a nice break to have a class where you have complete control and make whatever you wanted. My workload was very manageable this semester. I buckled down in the library and made sure I was on top of my work. I still am somewhat unsure as to what my major and career will be (which is slowly starting to worry me) and no class has jumped out and enthralled me, but I’m continuing with the path of study that I think will be the best for me.

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The library on Friday afternoons, when I got most of my work done
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All of the books for my classes this semester
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The musical instruments I created out of skulls and wood in Sculpture

Though I am not sure of my path of study, I am exploring several opportunities that may make my decision easier. I am interested in math, so I will be staying on-campus over the summer to do ten weeks of math research. I will be studying the tortuosity and geometric configuration of blood vessels in the brain and how that results in strokes. It pays much better than working at SUBWAY back home and I’m hoping the experience will be rewarding. I’ve heard that the campus during the summer is a pretty fun place to be.

I will also be participating in a program called Campaigns 2008 in the fall. I applied and was accepted to live in Lakeview within the program. The sixteen of us in my program will take a class on elections in America as well as travel to D.C, talk to officials close to the campaigns, create media ads for the campaigns, as well as several other projects. We’ve picked our own curriculum and I’m really excited. I’ll be living in a single most likely and be in a suite with two of my good friends.

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I’ve been tracking the election closely and made sure to vote

I continued to be active in organizations during second semester. Some of my friends have said that I’m too involved. I wouldn’t necessarily disagree with them on that. I continued to serve as Class President for the men of the Class of 2011. My Cabinet and I planned events including a Super Bowl Party, March Madness Party, and Freshmen Cookout. They were all successes, especially the cookout which had over two hundred people attend.

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The Cabinet’s Super Bowl Party
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Some of my Cabinet members at our Freshmen Cookout

A new organization for me, this semester, was Collegiate Disaster Relief Team (CDRT). During Spring Break, thirty of us UR students went to New Orleans to help rebuild after Hurricane Katrina. We gutted a nursing home, painted a house, and even helped with a house for Extreme Makeover: Home Edition since they were in the area. It was a lot of work, but still a good time. However, since I went on the trip, it meant that I would not go home between Christmas Break and August. I have already applied to be on leadership for next year’s trip and we have already begun planning it.

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The nursing home BEFORE
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The nursing home: AFTER
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It was though the nursing home was frozen in time
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Having fun with friends in the French Quarter

InterVarsity has also continued to be one of my activities. I did not attend small group and large group as often as first semester, but I was still a regular attendee. With InterVarsity, I participated alongside a few other men in a challenge called 3000-12 that required us to do 3,000 push-ups and memorize 12 Bible verses over the course of two weeks. I actually completed them all. I also helped with the Valentine’s Dinner where the men of InterVarsity hosted a dinner for the women. I was part of the kitchen crew and put in a lot of hours helping out, but it was still a fun time. Additionally, I served as the Team Captain for InterVarsity’s Relay for Life team. The event was rained-out, but the University did manage to raise $25,000 for cancer research. Since I am fairly active in InterVarsity, I applied to be on Leadership for next year and was accepted. So, I will attend a training retreat this summer for that.

 

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The kick-off to 3000-12
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Helping out with the IV Valentine’s Dinner
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InterVarsity’s Relay for Life Team
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We tried to make the most of the rain before Relay for Life was canceled

My local church has a group for UR students who attend there. I’ve become more involved with them as the year has gone on. I went over to one of my church leaders’ home for Easter dinner with other UR students. I’ve also tried to attend some of their weekly lunches when it doesn’t conflict with classes. Additionally, I helped them with Rebuilding Together, which helps to fix up needy homes in the Richmond area. I also attended an Interfaith Seder Dinner through my church group. Looking ahead, I will be representing this group next year on the Council for Christian Unity.

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Helping out with Rebuilding Together
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A beautiful cake at Easter Dinner
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The Interfaith Seder Dinner

Besides these organizations, I have worked a lot. In addition to this blog, I work in the Admissions Office. I’ve hosted students, helped with Admissions chats and panels, and, of course, given tours. I enjoy it and have spent a lot of time in the Admissions Office. According to my records, I have given 33 tours in the past two-and-a-half months.

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One of my tours was for some ladies from the Class of 1970

I suppose that you are probably wondering what I do when I’m not doing homework or active with my organizations. Well, I spend some of it supporting other organizations. I regularly attended a cappella concerts, improv comedy performances, and sports games. We had some great events that were fun to attend, especially our basketball team’s win over #16 Dayton.

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Our fans rushed the court after our victory over Dayton
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The Octaves, one of our a cappella group, performs

Besides these performances, I continued to attend a lot of the cultural events at the Modlin Center. I went to a performance of “The Battle for the Pentagon Papers”, “The Baltimore Waltz” (student-run play), Bobby McFerrin, “The Meeting” (University production), Natalie MacMaster (Celtic fiddler), Neil Berg’s “100 Years of Broadway”, and folk singer Arlo Guthrie (my favorite of the semester). They were all very enjoyable and entertaining, not to mention cheap.

We did have three special events occur this semester that I believe are worth mentioning. One was the launching of the first Spider into space. Leland Melvin is a UR graduate and was aboard Atlantis. We threw a fun party with “space food” to watch the launch. Also, President Ayers had his inauguration. It was a weekend of picnics, events, and festivities. We love President Ayers and are glad to see him here. One of the highlights from his inauguration was when he served as DJ for his own after party. Finally, the University of Richmond hosted a squash championship that brought fourteen of the top sixteen squash players in the world to campus. I watched many of the games and thoroughly enjoyed it. I’m hoping that they bring the tournament back next year as well.

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President Ayers’ Inauguration
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An Inaugural Picnic
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The Davenport Squash Tournament

Of course, I am a college student, so I hang out with my friends a lot and go to fun events. I have found a core group of guys who I hang out with a lot and are great friends. We made regular trips to Capital Ale House for Dollar Burger Night and also had meals at the Cellar (our on-campus restaurant) almost every week. Additionally, we had fun celebrating each other’s birthdays and getting together for game nights on the weekends or going to the Pier to watch “No Country For Old Men”, “Juno”, or whatever movie was playing that week. We also saw comedians perform on-campus, went to the James River, and attempted the new high ropes course on-campus together.

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Dollar Burger Night at Capital Ale House
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Eating out at The Cellar
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My friends threw a surprise birthday party for me
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Me playing Tarzan on the rope swing on the James River
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Having fun with Student Government on the ropes course

Lastly, I should mention the food here. I am still enjoying a wide variety at our dining center and am still amazed at the desserts that they offer. I’ve stepped up my exercise routine and now regularly go to our fitness center. In fact, I’m almost enjoying it (mainly because I watch my favorite TV shows when I’m there). The dining center has also done lots of specialty nights, such as Oriental Night (with sushi and seaweed salad) and Caribbean Night (with conch fritters and Cuban custard). They also had lots of things for finals week such as Midnight Munchies, a nacho bar, and grab-and-go items such as trail mix and popcorn.

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Caribbean Night at D-Hall

That’s been my semester. I know it’s been active but I’ve really enjoyed it. My friends and I have started doing lots more together and I’m curious and anxious to see what the summer and future hold for me. I’m hoping that I won’t be overloaded next year with Student Government, Lakeview, CDRT, InterVarsity, Council for Christian Unity, as well as work in the Admissions Office. Well, there’s only one way to find out and that is to keep reading my blog next year.

Final Shoutouts for Freshman Year: My good friends (Andrew, Jimmy, and Buddy), my family that keeps the care packages coming and answering all of my phone calls, and the Admissions Office for giving me this opportunity to blog about my crazy life.

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My parents awesome care package for Valentine’s Day

It Is Finished

May 2, 2008

Freshman year is officially in the books now. My three finals are officially complete. I had a take-home final which I had already finished and I didn’t have one for sculpture, but I did have one on Monday and two on Tuesday. I moved them up so I could be done as soon as possible. However, that does put a little extra stress on you. I left all three finals less confident than when I had walked in. However, I worked hard all semester and was in a great position in two of the classes already. The other one I had spent hours studying for and now I can only pray that I get a good grade. Irregardless, it’s done with and I am now a sophomore.

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My books from second semester
(I didn’t have to read the entire book for some)

Because there isn’t any homework except for studying for finals at your own discretion, I had some free time this past week. I participated in a project called Rebuilding Together through my local church. We volunteered to fix up some houses that needed to be repaired. I helped sledgehammer through a cement sidewalk that was falling apart and then helped to pour a new sidewalk to replace it.

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Showing off our brute strength as college students

After I returned to campus, I had another opportunity to do the high ropes course on-campus. Since it’s new, they’re testing it out and seeing how timing goes with it. So, I got a group of friends together and had a fun time up there. However, there is a University policy, apparently, that states we couldn’t do the whole course since we’re only alloted an hour of “fun time” because it was finals week. So, we did half of it, in half an hour at that. In my opinion, I need all the time up there that I can get because I’m spending the other time studying and I need as much stress relief as possible. But that’s just my opinion and how the situation was explained to me.

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My friends whom I did the ropes course with
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Maneuvering the Matrix

After the ropes course, I went out to dinner with my scholar group. It was paid for through our awesome scholar family and we finally got to get together as a group since we don’t do it very often. We bid our seniors farewell and good luck and enjoyed a very nice, relaxed evening. The weather was spectacular all day and we saw several students all dressed up from Prom. I was slightly envious because that was always such a fun time. Getting together with close friends and just having a fun night together. In my case, I went back to campus and kept on studying for finals.

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Some of my fellow scholars
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Our amazing dessert

Once finals were done, I had a few more items of business before I was free. I met with the other members of leadership for the Collegiate Disaster Relief Team and we’re already planning next Spring Break’s trip to New Orleans. I also met with my group for Campaigns 2008. I finally met the professor and am really excited. He’s allowing us to plan most of the class. We got to throw out ideas for texts that we’ll read, such as the candidates biographies and other non-traditional texts, as well as projects that we’ll do. We’re looking at creating media ads for the campaigns as well as visiting Washington D.C. several times and also getting speakers whom are very close to the campaigns. Besides those things, I decided to fill my free time by giving four tours through the Admissions Office. There weren’t many visitors, but it does make a nice break to give a one-on-one tour.

However, I definitely need some fun times and to celebrate the end of the year and all that I’ve accomplished. We UR students who attend my church went out to dinner with our church leaders at a local Thai restaurant. We bid farewell to our seniors and wished each other good luck this summer. Afterwards, we went to Bev’s, a local ice cream shop, for dessert.

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Eating out as a church group
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My delicious black raspberry ice cream cone after dinner

Finally, I have to mention my birthday. I turned 19 on May 1st and I didn’t anticipate celebrating too much. I didn’t even think I’d get together with a lot of my friends since some of them had two finals the next day. However, they surprised me by throwing a party for me. I had no idea they were doing it. It was really nice of them. I have some awesome friends. They even bought a cake, sparkling cider, and other snacks. We watched movies and just had fun. However, it was slightly sad since we didn’t know if we would see each other again until August. That’s almost four months away and no one really wants to recognize that aspect of having school end.

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Someone in the Admissions Office baked me a whole
plate of cookies for my birthday.
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My friends got me a personalized cake, cookies, and even sparkling cider

I believe that it has come time for me to end my freshman year. Looking at it one way, I made it and I got really involved and received the grades that I wanted. That’s a lot that’s been accomplished. However, it is the end of something. The campus has been bustling the past two days with parents arriving to pick up their students and all of their supplies. I’ll be on my own and stay here until August, which is difficult, but it’s not worth it to go home right now. I just talked to a friend of mine who’s an international student and he hasn’t been home since the beginning of the school year, so I guess I could have it worse.

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I am all packed up and ready to move out
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My friends decided to throw out their refrigerator in style
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The landfill that was created behind my dorm on move-out day
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The aftereffects of everyone moving out. Tons of trash was left
in the lounges and, as you can see, right in the hallways

I’m having to say goodbye to my friends and it’s just starting to set in that the year really is finished. Giant moving vans are being packed up and everyone is clearing out their rooms and departing. It’s bittersweet. However, I won’t have to say goodbye to you, my faithful readers. I’ll keep on blogging through the summer, I believe, and will most likely return in the fall. Thanks for reading about my freshman year and I hope you enjoyed reading about it as much as I enjoyed living it. That’s all for this year. This is Ben, signing off on freshman year. Over and out.

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Our geese have some cute little babies wandering around now

Quote of the Week: “For what it’s worth, it was worth all the while. It’s something unpredictable, but in the end it’s right. I hope you had the time of your life.” - “Time of Your Life” by Green Day
Thought to Ponder: Why doesn’t Tarzan have a beard?
Shout Outs: All of the friends I have made this year and all of my faithful readers who have been tracking me as my life has progressed
YouTube Video of the Week:

This is crazy. Keep replaying this a few times. I don’t have any idea how it works.