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Where Has Everyone Gone?

February 15th, 2008

As I sit here in Gottwald at 8:50 AM, I wonder to myself, “Where has everyone gone?”. I am all alone and no one is around. However, I shouldn’t even be here right now. I should be in Sculpture. Yet, I am not. I showed up along with all of the other students, but our teacher wasn’t there yet. After fifteen minutes of sitting in silence, a secretary walks in and says that our teacher is not feeling well and there won’t be class today. Flashback to yesterday, Thursday. I woke up early and made my way over to the Admissions Office to give a tour. Alas, no one was there either, so I couldn’t give a tour. So, I proceeded to the library to get some studying done before my only class on Thursdays. But, I got an e-mail from that teacher saying she is sick and that class was canceled. Now I know where everyone is. They’re all sick… or so it seems. The cold, rainy weather probably isn’t helping at all. Illnesses are spreading quickly in the dorms and I have been fortunate to not come down with what everyone else has right now. I just hope it stays that way.

However, since class was canceled yesterday, I just stayed in the library and did work… and more work… and more work until I realized I hadn’t eaten lunch… and it was now 6:00 PM. I had been in there for eight straight hours. I plowed through our next CORE book which didn’t need to be read until a week from Monday. It was called “Sputnik Sweetheart” and was rather strange. After finishing that, I started reading John Locke’s “Second Treatise of Government”, which doesn’t need to be finished until next Thursday. I think that the reason I spent so much time in there was because I was in and out of consciousness for part of the time and also was doing odds and ends that I had meant to get to for a while. I’m rather exhausted now and didn’t get as much sleep this week, which was ironically what this week’s Stress Management class (and common sense) told me not to do.

Yet, I am in a good place for school right now. I’m a little ahead in three of my classes and the other two are just fine. I just think I’m managing my time a lot better this semester. I already had a midterm (one of our three midterms in the class) in Macroeconomics. It went very well because he uses almost questions solely from our previous quizzes. However, the test is fair and pretty good. I am very pleased with how I did. I also had a test in Calculus 2. I had learned everything from this chapter already and thought I would ace it. However, it didn’t go as planned and now I’m anxiously awaiting the results.

The main event from last weekend was Real World. This event is hosted by student government and the Career Development Center. They bring back about 20 alumni who share their experiences with life after college. There was an open panel on Friday and then we ate brunch with them on Saturday morning. After that, we broke into small groups and I visited the Law & Government group as well as the Finance & Consulting group. I really enjoyed their thoughts and insights. However, it did get me a little worried about what I’ve heard of life after college. The whole process of a job search, finding a place to live, and maintaining social relationships is daunting in a new environment. It’s entirely different out there, but I have a feeling that I’m setting myself up quite well to adjust to it.

Speaking of jobs after college, the Resident Assistant staff put together several programs for the freshmen guys in Gray Court. One of them focused on the political happenings of today with the elections, but as well as the possibility of a recession and how that will affect us getting jobs after college and our lives as students. The other sessions involved religion and its place in the world. I attended both, but had to leave the religion one early.

I left early because I had a concert at Modlin to go to. It was Arlo Guthrie. I really didn’t know what to expect. I knew he was a folk singer and that I had heard the name Guthrie before, but didn’t know much else. He’s famous for “Alice’s Restaurant” and was big in the Woodstock era. I was so glad I went. It was a great performance. His songs were witty and well done. However, I would have gone just to hear him tell his stories. He was hilarious and it was almost like stand-up comedy. I thoroughly enjoyed it and I think my friend, Jimmy, whom I dragged along, also had a good time.

“City of New Orleans” by Arlo Guthrie

Speaking of music, our artist-in-residence (whatever that really means) “eighth blackbird quartet” won two Grammy awards.

Also this week, I had an interview to be an Orientation Adviser in the fall, so maybe you’ll meet me then if I’m accepted. I attended the men’s basketball game on Saturday. We did not perform well and lost, but the halftime entertainment was exciting. It was a Baby Race.

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The Baby Race at halftime

Also, my men’s Bible study joined with the women’s small group and we had a discussion on accountability. It was fun to have to get together with them again since I hadn’t been able to make it in a while. It made it even better that the ladies brought Valentine’s cookies.

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The women’s small group brought Valentine cookies for us. I decorated it myself!!!
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Awkward picture of me eating a cookie. It was a good cookie.
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This is just a random picture of the two small group leaders that the creepy-looking guy in the background, whom I somehow call a friend, wanted me to take. Just kidding, David.

InterVarsity brought in one of the leaders from my church to speak this week. She did a good job. After InterVarsity, some of us got together and had a movie night watching “Newsies” which is one of my personal favorites. I also attended Vagina Monologues this week to support my friends who were in it. As a guy, it was rather awkward and I believe that guys accounted for only 10% of attendance. Most of these guys were my friends, though, who also came as support.

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One of my friends performing in Vagina Monologues

Yesterday was Valentine’s Day, or Singles Awareness Day for most people here. InterVarsity is holding a Valentine’s Dinner tomorrow night that I will attend. The last thing to mention is Lakeview, where I am applying to stay in the Campaigns 2008 program this fall. So far, there are 18 applications in for 20 spots, but a lot more are still coming. So, I need to hope that I get accepted as well as my other friends who have applied. Also with politics, I finally decided who I was going to vote for in Wisconsin’s primary this Tuesday. I sent the absentee ballot and it should arrive just in time.

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Being a good citizen

That’s all for this week. Now, I must head to the Post Office and pick up a mysterious package. I was not expecting one and am rather curious about it. Last time I stopped in, no one was there. It continues the streak of “Where is everyone?”. However, I think they were just closed at the time. Now, they’re open. Gotta run.

(Later in the day) So, I just got the mysterious package and it was a surprise Valentine’s Day care package from home. It was awesome. It had food, sweet cards from my siblings, clothes, and (most importantly) love for this single college student.

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My Awesome Valentine’s Day Care Package 

 

Quote of the Week: Chuck Nevitt, North Carolina State basketball player, explaining to Coach Jim Valvano why he appeared nervous at practice: “My sister’s expecting a baby, and I don’t know if I’m going to be an uncle or an aunt.”
Thought to Ponder:
Why is Grape Nuts cereal called that, when it contains neither grapes nor nuts?
Shout Outs:
Happy Birthday John!!! Also, all of you prospectives who have now been accepted. Congratulations!!! My family for the awesome care package.
YouTube Clip of the Week:

Spiders on Drugs, in honor of our mascot
(It’s hilarious, just give it a while)

Blast Off!!!

February 8th, 2008

As you boldly venture where few have gone before, namely the depths of Ben’s mind, prepare for a wild ride because this week has been jam packed. So let’s start the countdown as we prepare to blast off into the recap of this past week. In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1…. Let’s Go!

No, I have not returned to my childhood fantasy of wanting to be an astronaut. This week has been very important in the history of UR alumni. On Thursday, the first UR alumni launched into space on Atlantis. Leland Melvin, a football player while a student here, is part of the crew that successfully launched into space after weeks of delays. He will operate the robotic arm as part of their space walks during the trip. I’ve seen launches before but this was different. We had a huge party on campus with local TV networks covering it. They provided “space food” (Milky Ways, Moon Pies, Martian Punch, and Big Dippers) and everyone was really excited. We all cheered as it lifted off, but it was a pretty intense few moments afterwards while everyone watched in silence. Knowing someone who is on board really changed the viewing experience. I was amazed at how fast it was going. It rapidly increased speed from blast off to 4,000 miles per hour to almost 20,000 miles per hour. That is almost 5 miles per second. That’s crazy fast. It was a lot of fun and the campus is proud to have seen the first Spider launched into space.

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TV crews covered our Space Launch Party
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Our “Space Food”: Milky Way, Moon Pie, Martian Punch, and Big Dippers


LIFT OFF!!!
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Even the mascot got in a space mood

Obiously, the space launch wasn’t the only super event this week. There were two others. Sunday was the Super Bowl and my Cabinet and I threw a Super Bowl party for Freshmen guys. We had a great turnout of 48 people and had to run to the store to get more food since we didn’t anticipate so many people. The Giants stunned the Patriots and you could hear the campus ringing with shouts after the Giants won if you happened to be outside. I have several friends who are diehard Patriots fans and they were crushed. I actually felt sorry for them, even though I would probably fall into the class of “Patriots hater”.

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Our Super Bowl Party
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We went through a lot of pizza. 20 to be exact.


My favorite Super Bowl commercial

The other super event was Super Tuesday, of course. Being a political election junkie, I thrived on this. I’ve been tracking polls daily and checking all of the new news. There was a party on campus to watch all of the results come in and it had a good turnout. Obama had a ton of supporters there and it easily could have been confused with an Obama rally. I had five web sites up and tracked the results minute by minute. However, the results were rather unclear and no true leaders emerged. I hate this. I am very organized in my life and hate chaos. This battle for the nomination is starting to drive my crazy. Maybe I’ve got OCD, that wouldn’t be a shocker. Anyways, I now need to make up my mind who I’m voting for and mail in my absentee ballot for Wisconsin very soon. Let the fun continue.

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The Super Tuesday Results Viewing

Before I go any further, I must comment on the weather. It has been AMAZING. It reached 81 degrees and I was actually sweating in shorts and a T-shirt. It’s starting to cool down, but it was so nice to have sun and seventies. A bunch of my friends and I got together for a game of volleyball on the sand courts. The sand was cold and there were giant puddles and the ball was flat and the game wasn’t very competitive, but it felt so good to get back out there and play. The temperatures are dropping fast, so I’m trying to enjoy this spurt of good weather while I can.

Tuesday night was spent at an etiquette dinner. I am rather culturally challenged at times and really needed to learn why there are so many forks and spoons on the table. Several alumni came back and taught us important skills about work dinners and job interviews. It was great to talk to alumni and am finding the alumni here to be very supportive and great people. I tried to eat pasta “continental style”, but that failed miserably. I got a free seven course dinner out of it and many great skills which I desperately needed.

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The main entree of our seven course meal

As far as classes go, things are pretty good. One teacher is getting slightly on my nerves, but I’m still very happy with how things are going. I finished my CORE paper regarding St. Augustine’s fear with regards to his conversion to Christianity. I thought it was really good. My teacher went over it with me today and liked it as well. The fact that I’m done two weeks early makes it even better. Calculus 2 has its first test next week and I have an Economics midterm on Monday. I did a group project for Leadership Studies analyzing “The Prince” by Machiavelli, a book which I thoroughly enjoyed. The project went well and I hope we get a good grade. It was 20% of our semester grade. For Sculpture, we turned in our first project, a skull, on Wednesday. Mine wasn’t perfect, but I thought it looked really good for me having no artistic talent. Oh, did I mention that it is 8 PM on a Friday night and I have finished all of my homework for the weekend. How great is that?

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My finished skull from Sculpture
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I tediously worked on that skull for a long time, with few apparent results

On Thursday night, I attended a three person play put on by one of our theater major classes. It was the Paula Vogel classic “The Baltimore Waltz”. I didn’t know what to expect, but I thoroughly enjoyed it. It was humorous and I can tell that they put a lot of time into it.

I also returned to InterVarsity for the first time in a long time. I had either been sick or had other conflicts during the time period. It was good to see everyone again. It was broiling hot in the room, but I hope to be able to keep going back.

On Monday, two of my good friends, Jimmy and Buddy, and I went to Capital Ale House for Dollar Burger Night. Oddly, we all ordered the same thing, but we had a great time. It was nice to get off campus.

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Capital Ale House for Dollar Burger Night
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Our chocolate cake that we had for dessert

After eating, we went shopping. We searched for Valentine gifts for Jimmy and just wandered around. I hope to do this more often and just get into Richmond and have some fun.

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I found this stuffed animal in the Valentine’s aisle

That’s all for this week. I’ve got some events this weekend and then I begin the intense period of testing. Take care and I’ll be back before you now it.

Quote of the Week: “Leadership: The art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.” -Dwight D. Eisenhower
Thought to Ponder: If a fork were made of gold, would it still be considered silverware?
Shout Outs: All of the alumni out there
YouTube Video of the Week:

This is a classic on YouTube

Exciting Developments

The past 24 hours have provided me with information that effects my Spring Break and most of my summer. I learned that I was accepted to CDRT (Collegiate Disaster Relief Team). That means that I will spend Spring Break in New Orleans with thirty other students from UR. I was very honored since there are very few freshmen who are accepted.

So that means that I won’t return home until May, right? Wrong. I was also informed yesterday that I was accepted to the LURE (Long Term Undergraduate Research). So, I will spend ten weeks this summer doing math research on-campus. I’m excited for this opportunity, but also am apprehensive about my skills. But, it’ll be great to have nights and weekends in the summer open to hang out with friends and play beach volleyball and have fun. My research group will be investigating the shape of blood vessels in the brain and their tortuosity and corkscrew patterns which lead to strokes. I don’t even understand everything yet, but it sounds cool.

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This is what I’ll be working with this summer

My other application that I’m waiting to hear on is Lakeview. That is the Political Campaigns program which lives together and takes a class together. I’ve submitted my application and am waiting to hear the results early next month. I went to an Open House and heard what I wanted. The second semester we are free to live in the amazing dorm but have no obligations to the program. Plus, the program is meant to enhance everything with outside activities that are designed by us, but by no means consume our life. Wish me luck on that one too.

As far as homework is concerned, it’s been very light. I have almost no work this weekend and this semester has been great for me. It’s definitely made me feel more at ease and that I’ve made good decisions last semester and this semester already. I am reading Machiavelli’s “Prince” and am finding it very fascinating. Everything he says makes sense, yet is so contrary to common thinking. I am working on a group project for it and need to lead a class discussion on it. The class is still interesting and the teacher is still great. Sculpture is also going well. The teacher had a lot of compliments for my skull and it looks pretty good in my mind. I’ll post a picture when it’s all done, which will be next week. Finally, CORE is going well. Oddly, I’m liking the books that we’re reading. We are currently on Shakespeare’s “Othello”. Our class is reenacting it with a very modern twist. It’s fun. Wow. I actually just called Shakespeare “fun”. I never thought that would happen. I’m also starting a paper on “Confessions” by St. Augustine for CORE. I’m well ahead of the rest of the class and already have my thesis and intro done. My paper is on the role of fear in Augustine’s decision to convert to Christianity.

I went shopping for the Super Bowl Party that our Class Cabinet is throwing. It was a lot of fun to go into town with them. Plus, we had some pretty interesting conversations about everything from black lights to politics to medicine. I ended up getting some games and other supplies that I needed as well. Now, I can have more game nights with friends. The next night, I went into town again with my friend, Andrew. He treated me to dinner at a Mexican restaurant and it was pretty fun. Andrew has done so much to help me with Class Cabinet and has gotten to be a good friend. I’ve hung out with friends a little bit more this semester. I had dinner with David, my friend and small group leader, and I think it’s going to turn into a weekly event.

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Eating at the Mexican restaurant with Andrew

Finally, I went to two forms of entertainmen this week. This afternoon, I went to see Ira Glass, who is on NPR’s “This American Life”, which is one of the top shows on all of the radio. He gave a monologue which was interrupted by clips from his shows. It was fairly interesting, but slightly dry at times. To make life more fun, I went to see a comedian which CAB brought on Friday night. His name was Dan Cummins and he was really funny. It made my night and made me laugh a lot. He made a joke about us having a Leadership major, thinking it was a joke, and was blown away when he found out we weren’t kidding. He made some funny jokes about it, but I’m still proud of it.

That’s about it. The weekend is flying by and I’m trying to enjoy it. The weather has been great lately and gotten into the 50’s and is supposed to reach 70 soon. I have to sign off for now, but I’ll keep you filled in on the developments in my life. Adios.

Quote of the Week: “If you think dogs can’t count, then try putting three dog biscuits in your pocket and then giving Fido only two of them.” -Phil Pastoret
Thought to Ponder:
If money doesn’t grow on trees, then why do banks have branches?
Shout Outs: Andrew for taking me into town… twice

My newest feature (I just found out how to embed movies and am having a lot of fun):
YouTube Movie of the Week:

This is my former teammate Tim catching the diving board with his right leg and tearing his ACL, LCL, and part of his MCL. He won state diving while on our high school team. This is in honor of him.