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Archive for September, 2008

Hello Out There!

College is already a blast, and I’m only three days in.
Move-in day seemed like the sort of experience that should have been incredibly awkward – the kind you’re excited for and dread all at once. You figure that you’ll check in, cart your storage bins and cardboard boxes clumsily into the dorm, and dismiss your parents as soon as possible. Not so. No one knows what they’re doing more or less at all, so nobody cares when you ask for directions to the same place four times or spill an entire bowl of Reese Puffs on the D-hall floor. Parents stay well into the afternoon, and everyone’s mother cries. Some are just a bit more discrete than others…

Packed and ready to go! Here we see everything I “needed” for college. Surprisingly, it all fit iin my room and I was even able to go back for more clothes!

Everything I “needed” for college packed and ready to go! Surprisingly, it all fit in my room and I was even able to go back for more clothes.
The nice thing about goodbyes is that they’re typically followed by plenty of hellos. I’ve met a lot of people in the past few days, most of whose names I proceeded to forget upon hearing. I’m forever in fear of introducing myself to someone I’ve met before and it’s quite possible that I’ve done it already. Our halls are broken down into orientation groups, and each  has two orientation advisors. They’re equipped with plenty of ice-breakers and suggest we keep an open mind during the various activites. We know that we all would rather be out on our own than listing off which animals we’d chose to be and why. All of us, that is, with the possible exception of me. I secretly enjoy ice-breakers. Ok, I lied. I openly enjoy them. And I would be a dolphin, in case you were wondering. You probably weren’t.

The bookstore sees it’s biggest crowd of the year
The bookstore crammed with parents and students buying everything they realized they’d forgotten or  needed upon arrival to campus.

Most of orientation has been made up of seminars and speakers going over the logistics of college life. We had some really interesting diversity talks and a few frightening rape discussions.  Use the buddy system and keep those rape whistles handy, ladies! On Friday night we experienced “Playfair” and met more students than I would have thought physically possible within a two hour period. There was a lot of running around and fun/hazardous dancing. Next came my favorite activity – eighties night! It seemed like the class of 2012 in its entirety showed up at Good Will on the morning of our orientation mixer. The place was packed with girls and guys clamoring to purchase cheap costumes for our eighties themed dance. It seemed like a lot of people just tried to put together the most hideous fabric combinations available. The OA’s crammed us all into the Pier and turned on the music. Cameras flashed as new friends tried to capture the perfect Facebook profile picture and, as the night wore on, the giant windows that faces the lake slowly became clouded by the first-year class’s collective body heat.

Nellie and I all prepped for 80’s night

Nellie and I sport our 80’s attire


My biggest fear coming to college was getting lost.  Good thing Richmond’s campus is so small that all you have to do is walk in one direction for about ten minutes and find yourself either at the main road or by the lake! It’s size makes it easy to get to know and feel a part of quickly. I’m already catching myself referring to my dorm room as home.

Equestrian Team (URET!)

When I was still in highschool all of a year ago, I constantly (ok, not really - at least frequently) searched the websites of my prospective colleges for information about extra curricular activities. Mostly I found contact informations for presidents of various clubs, but I was only curious and didn’t want to bother anyone for information. I was primarily interested in riding during college and am now on UR’s equestrian team, so I’d like to share a little about it!

The Pines

The Pines - A barn about 45 minutes from campus where riding team members take lessons and host shows

The Pines is…well, we’ll call it rustic. It’s more than a bit overgrown in places and the paint on the jumps and fences is peeling.  There are trees in the middle of the ring and weeds popping up everywhere. Naturally, I find it adorable and am completely in love with it. The small barn smells good, like worn leather and wood chips. It’s a welcoming smell, one that I’d missed all summer. As we pulled up the driveway for evaluation rides a few weeks ago, I felt myself relax and finally get excited. I had been nervous about joining the team, the team where everyone seemed to have their own horses who they rode at least once daily, after taking English riding lessons for under a year. The girls I carpooled up with were incredibly nice and eager to talk about their riding experiences. I just sort of sat back and listened, contributing when I could (meaning not very frequently) and trying to absorb their equine terminology. They seemed glad to have a guaranteed walk/trot competitor on the team with them, and I was looking forward to taking lessons with girls above the age of seven for once.

The Ring 

Britney, a first-year, warms up in the ring before the evaluation ride

We were sorted into groups and mine rode first. As I picked up the trot and sank back into the saddle, I remembered all at once how much I loved riding and finally stopped questioning how much I wanted to be on URET. The sun was shining, laying speckled shadows through the trees and across the ring. The four girls waiting hung their arms over the fence and stood, helmets in hand, with one boot each propped casually against the bottom rails. They talked and squinted into the light to watch us. The whole scene was very much like a shot out of a Land’s End catalog. Bruce, our instructor, and Jessica, our coach, stood in the center of it all taking notes on a clipboard and organizing IHSA papers. They’re both incredibly casual and supportive. You can tell they truly enjoy what they do. Needless to say, the pleasent ride made cutting out the $400+ check at the end a bit easier. (The money covers the cost of one lesson per week and international horse show association membership.)

 Brown Horse

Another horse waits his turn  - note the dramatic, windswept bangs

I had my first lesson last week and spent most of it at the good ol’ posting trot while the experienced riders cantered and jumped. I’m glad to be in a lesson where I can learn from the other girls and I don’t mind being so far behind. The trip out was a nice mid-week escape, and when we got back to campus, everyone went to Dhall in half-chaps, breeches, and riding boots. We got more than one confused stare and each wished that we’d had big signs that said “I went riding” hung around our necks to explain the hairy, dirt-covered clothes. The first show is in two weeks or so. It’s up in Maryland so that means we’ll have to get up to leave UR at around 4am. While I’m not looking forward to the drive, I think I’ll be so excited enough to wake up early without a problem. Most girls have their first horse show at around age 8. I’m hoping that means it isn’t too hard to get the hang of showing. Some of the riders, I’m told, are real beginners – ones who started to ride only upon arriving to college. You can borrow show attire from other people on your team. That’s a real plus since tall boots run at least $300. If you’re a beginner, that’s a lot to spend on a sport you’re not sure you’ll like.

And yes, it is a sport. Anyone who’s ever ridden a horse (and I’m not talking about one of those ponies at the state fair that are led around for you and travel at a speed of .001 mph) will tell you that. I saw a bumper sticker on facebook that I thought made a good argument. It said: Dear track, soccer, tennis, basketball, golf, football, and all other sports. Does your ball, bat, racquet, club or hurdle have a mind of its own? Didn’t think so. Sincerely, horseback riding.” I’ll let you know how the shows go, and all beginners – don’t be afraid to try out URET! Everyone is really supportive and eager to help you out - It’s so fun!

Gray horse

Classes and Such

Gazebo in the Rain

Westhapton Lake - I think it’s pretty even in the rain.

It’s been a sleepy day on campus. Even the trees are tired. Their heavy limbs hang low over the rippling lake. The first two days of classes have ended, and the excitement buzzing in the air has been hushed to a gentle hum. Rain glides in wind-swept sheets across the library’s front lawn. I’ve just come from a nap and the biology reading ahead of me is dense and unexciting compared to the comfort of my bed back in Moore Hall. Two girls in their J.Crew rainboots (side-note: buy rainboots, you’ll need them) slide by sipping coffees from 8:15 and mumbling about the effort it takes to stay awake on days like these. The only living creatures that are still up and at ‘em are the ducks.  I love watching them waddle back and forth by the water’s edge or dip their heads underwater to search for food.

Ducks!

Ducks on the lake  :)                                                            

Up on the second floor of Boatwright Library, students drape themselves lazily across cushioned armchairs and study. Katie and Maureen glue themselves to their copies of “Native Son” while Mallory tries frantically to silence her computer’s start-up sound. These aren’t just any friends of mine, these are my college friends. We – the four of us and sometimes more – are on a strict schedule. Our meals are strategically planned hours, sometimes a full day, in advance so that no one has to eat alone. It’s the same way with the library study sessions. It’s a bit silly, because there are so many people here that you have to really try to be by yourself. With the start of classes, our group is slowly expanding, taking in new girls from various academic fields.

College Buddies

Nellie, Mallory, Maureen, Ann, Katie and I - Moore Hall’s best girls!

Where do my non-dorm friends come from? Here’s an overview of my schedule. I’m taking a bit of everything, so hopefull at least one class will stick out as an interest area for you! I’m pretty much excited about all of them.

My Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays I finish by 10:10. My day starts with BIO 199, a course in animal embryology. The professor has a clear passion for frogs and showing off photos of his golden retriever. Next week in lab, we’re artificially inseminating frog eggs. And don’t think I’m being sarcastic when I say I can’t wait. The best part of it is, neither can any of the other 6 students in my class! We’re a total of 7 (in case you can’t add) and all of us love biology, anatomy, and developmental studies. Spanish is immediately after Bio. My fellow Spanish students are all adept and excited to use the language, because we’re in a 300-level class. We’ve passed the requirement stage is what I mean to say. The men and women, which are the correct terms for guys and girls in college, learning with me all chose to be where they are and the work they do is a reflection of it. Tuesdays and Thursdays, classes are over for me by 12:30. I have Calculus I, followed by CORE. Calc is a bit of a stretch for us all, but the professor is nice and the workload is fair. First-years are required to take CORE, and whether or not they’ll enjoy it is generally based on who’s teaching it.  My CORE teacher is great – really nice, laid back but not a push-over. Interesting factoid : I went to prom with his son but had never seen him before my first day of class. That’s what happens when you go to a small college smack in the center of your hometown, I guess.

I was worried that going to school so close to home might ruin my “college experience,” but at UR you feel like you could be anywhere in the world. My uncle Richard says it reminds him of Hogwarts. Nice.

The Pier, sub-umbrella
This is the shot of the lake you get while trying to balance a camera, an umbrella, and a hot ham sandwhich.